Empowerment is not necessarily within our power to give to others. However, if we want to create more empowering co-created relationships and systems, here are some things to consider.
Intersectionality:
Many feel like only parts of themselves are seen, and for real empowerment, we need to have all of ourselves acknowledged as important. We also have to be conscious of the various parts of ourselves that are at play in relationships.
Intentionality:
Strategies for empowerment that lack intention often fall flat. We have to consider what we are doing and why. What to we want to achieve? Is it within our power or responsibility? What’s the potential impact?
Direct Communication:
Words are more meaningful when we mean them and they are communicated directly. When was the last time someone told you what they appreciate about you? When was the last time you told someone else what you appreciate about them?
Mindfulness:
Being mindful allows us to consider intentionality, intersectionality, and provides us the space for directness. We can rid ourselves of impulsive and urgent reactions over time so that we can more meaningfully promote empowerment.